forgive & forget

forgive and forget..i noe its hard to forgive n forget esspecially if he/she had hurt u..but wat if u're the person that hurt him/her??.. wat will he/she feel??.. sad?? he'll/she'll cry?? i don noe!!
well if u have been through in this situation before, then i tink u'll noe how hard it is.. rite??
but what can i do??.. don talk to him/her in my whole life??.. kill him/her??..*lolx..jk jk..i'll never do dat..its sin =]* what choice do i have beside forgiving n forgetting?? any ideas??anyone??
so now im trying really really hard to forgive him/her n to forget wat he/she had done..=]
and if i have hurt u,,im really sorry..please forgive me??
forgive n forget..like what jesus christ have forgive us as he died on the cross n forget what we've done that really hurt him..thats y he still love us A LOT!!..n i love him too more than anthing on this earth..more than my own life!!..
jesus christ..the Messiah, Lord of Lord n our great God..